How to catch a lie? – Express Urdu

Human behavior is fascinating and mysterious. There has always been a quest to examine and understand the mysteries of these behaviors, and work is being done in subfields within psychology.

Man has been given the status of Ashraf al-Makhluqat and he has also been given the power to think and understand which he uses according to his will. Man is recognized by his behavior and understanding human behavior is a complex process. Truth and Lies are forces that are characteristic of human character. In any religion or society of the world, truth is loved and lies are hated. But it is also a fact that those who speak the truth have to face difficulties. The abundance of lies proves to be harmful to the society and most of the simple and innocent people are affected by it.

Liars are so skillful in fooling the person in front of them that they cannot even suspect. In the society, you see such deceitful liars around you frequently and if their lie is caught, they skillfully pass it on to someone else. Lying is a sophisticated but common behavior in human behavior. Scientific research on how people lie is currently limited, but in 2004, a popular website conducted a poll in which 96 percent of people admitted to lying sometimes. are

In 2009, a study was published in which 60% of 1,000 American people claimed that they do not lie at all. However, the researchers found that people do lie but do not admit it. The fact is that people lie from time to time, some to please others and some to deceive. Now, not catching a liar is a difficult thing which is equal to playing the lion’s share, but still there are some signs that it is better to be alarmed.

If unclear, ask for details.

Repeat the question

Say the sentences in pieces

Failing to provide details when a story is changed

If the person in front runs his hand through his hair or presses his lips with his fingers.

If you suspect that someone is lying, follow these few signs that help identify liars.

Outward behavior

Whenever lie detection is attempted, people’s behavior is taken into account because behavior is recognizable. For example, if someone is lying, they will tremble, try to hide their expression, or snap their fingers to hide their fear, play with their hair, press their lips or forehead with their fingers. All these are signs of his inner conflict that he will struggle to hide his lies.

Although these signs may reflect a liar’s internal distraction, research suggests that this is not always the case. According to a Harvard University psychologist who has been researching eye movements since the 1970s, lying has nothing to do with eye movements. In addition, several research papers show that although eye movements and other cues can help identify liars, they can be one of the weakest signs. It is important to understand that although outward causes may be helpful, it is important to understand all the signs and circumstances.

Voice and conversation

Uncertainty and difficulty speaking can reflect feelings of guilt.

Our speech reflects our character. We express what we do through our speech. Researchers have suggested that one way to catch lies is to look at them in reverse rather than chronological order. Jai means what happened before that, how did it happen before that? Such an additional challenge may facilitate recognition of other verbal and nonverbal cues.

Liars have to use more mental skills to cover up their lies and struggle to control their behavior and maintain their reputation. Lying is psychologically damaging and can lead to serious mental complications resulting in obvious changes in behavior. In this context, a study was conducted on an incident involving 80 people, telling half of them the details of the story in reverse order. It was said that while half of the people are chronologically and the researchers came to this conclusion, there are more chances of catching lies through reverse order.

Because when a story is told chronologically, it gives the liar the opportunity to add whatever context he wants. But when it’s in reverse order, he has the least chance of lying. In another experiment, police officers tested taped interviews to see who was lying and who wasn’t. It turned out that it was easier to catch lies in reverse-order interviews than in chronological ones.

The sixth sense

Sometimes by trusting yourself and listening to your inner voice, you can judge whether someone is lying or not. Along with other senses, nature has also given us a sixth sense and it is on some occasions. It supports us where we have run all the horses of reason and consciousness and still there is a voice coming from within which is just like a signal. Even though everything seems to be fine, you still feel that something is wrong and this is the help that nature provides and it is in the form of our sixth sense. Even unconsciously sometimes words like cheater and dishonest emerge in your mind for someone. And it is included in our instinct.

Why is it difficult to catch a lie?

Often attention is paid to what are the outward signs that can catch a lie, but trusting instinct is the best. People tend to focus on the stereotypes associated with catching a lie like not making eye contact, irritability and others which is true to some extent but the important thing is to judge someone’s actions rather than their words. It can be said that someone can claim to bring the moon and stars from the sky, but in reality, when the time comes, a person’s behavior will tell how true and honest he is in his words and actions or whether he is a victim of contradiction.

Usually, after meeting a liar or two, the power meter inside you starts giving you a red signal, now sometimes we reject it and again start trusting the same people blindly, then it is our own fault. It happens. Lying has been frowned upon, both secularly and religiously.

It is said in a hadith that a believer is not pierced twice through the same hole. Which means that if someone has cheated, he cannot be trusted again. Because the one whose nature is to deceive will deceive you every time. There is no greater mistake than trusting a liar again. So if you are dealing with someone who tells you the truth If he is claiming but lying to someone else at the same time, remember that he will lie to you when he gets a chance. And the most important element of training is not to encourage your children to tell the truth, but tell them the truth and put the truth in front of them. Because truth is faith.